you may want to look at the Multiverse theory, or the cyclic model of the universe, in which case the Big Bang isn't the only event of its kind that took place. In fact, it's embarrassingly common. As far as "where did matter and energy come from" firstly, they are one and the same (e=mc2) and secondly, energy can neither be created or destroyed. Where did it come from? It has likely always been.
" What is new about our model is that by employing dark energy and by having an infinite universe, which dilutes away the radiation and matter after every bang you actually can have an eternal cyclic universe, which could last forever. ". - Turok and Steinhardt. In any event, the explaination put forth by religion suffers from the same flaw: What created the divine Creator?
Will somebody give me the answer to this question? : What is happening, right 'now', at the event horizon of the black hole in the center of our galaxy? Relatively speaking, of course. ; )
why sir, why say its bs if you can't proof anything better. The Big Bang Theory is our best answer to the creation of the Universe. All matter was at singularity at the time of creation and this energy you speak of was a super force created by the rapidly expanding Universe. This force divided into four different ones known as gravity, electromagnetism & strong/weak nuclear force. There is no more to add to this as our perception of the universe will change as time goes on.